Studies have shown that high-pressure, anxiety-producing situations lead to lower performance on cognitively demanding tasks. In real talk, we’re spinning in analysis paralysis. This moment of overwhelm has us ask ourselves this question: “What am I doing with my life?” It can feel impossible to answer! The real problem is making important decisions feels daunting, but what’s really happening is it feeds the fire of doubt. We can agree it’s true that softening that pressure doesn’t soothe doubt, but soothing doubt can soften the pressure. That’s why, to answer that question we need to relieve the pressure of all decision making by quieting self-doubt. You do that by connecting to your intuition. Here’s how. We expand ease by being cognizant, staying curious, and choosing the life you desire. We’ll explore how these steps achieve the goal and allow better communication, create comfort in setting boundaries, and support a happier life.